If someone in traffic yells a barrage of obscenities at you, you may get angry, chalk it up to that person being a so-and-so, and go on with your day. But if your spouse yells at you, then you may feel differently. The difference is the Relationship you have with the stranger (none) and your spouse (intimate). The more intimate a relationship, the more personal a conflict become is to you. Those close to you can cause greater harm, and you can harm them just as much.
Conflicts with those who are close can be volatile and complex, and cause long term damage. The relationship itself can persuade people not to address problems fearing that they may hurt each other. This is a common and understandable approach, but can ultimately be damaging. It is important to note that all of the factors listed here intertwine, and relationships require first and foremost trust and communication.
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